(Insert here: heart eyes, heart eyes, heart eyes!)
After spending time texting and on instagram, it feels strange not having an "emoji" option here in blog land. If such things are possible, I am unaware. It's probably sad that I've grown so accustomed to relying on emoji's when words once sufficed; but I'm going to go ahead and look past that because it makes me feel "young" and "hip" to feel that way. :)
The girls recently watched an episode of the show, Liv and Maddie which featured a drawing with the saying: "Sisters by chance, friends by choice." Eliza, feeling inspired, went to work creating one with Lottie. A few weeks ago, the girls became roommates so you can bet your bottom dollar that I have plans to frame and hang that in their bedroom. Also, I'm pretty sure I'll be crafting one for my own sister as a Christmas gift. But I might change the words to:
"Sisters by chance... Ha ha ha, you are so stuck with me!"
Henry recently had an eye appointment where we learned that not only is his crossing gone, but his overall vision has improved. This development was unexpected. I feel thrilled and blessed that his surgery was successful. The doctor was clear that there were would be no guarantees this would fix the problem. Also, he was detailed in explaining the possible risks involved. In many ways, his procedure was minor compared to other obstacles other parents are required to support and love their children through. But I still want to express my gratitude, in writing, to Heavenly Father for a positive outcome.
Fun fact: Henry's mom was also cross-eyed as a child. I had to have the surgery twice before my eyes were fixed. I vividly remember the discomfort during my recovery; so, HOORAY for Henry's doctor for getting the job done!
Side note: life with four is feeling "easier." I am not sure if that's the most appropriate word to use. However, going places with my entire crew isn't quite the production it once was. I attribute the shift to Forrest being older. In many ways, he's rebelling against my wishes that he stay little, but I suppose his "maturity" has a few benefits. He listens and understand more. Also, I'm able to trust Eliza with more responsibility. At this particular appointment, I had the idea to have Eliza watch the younger kids in the nearby playroom while Henry and I met with his eye doctor. It worked out really well. When I came to collect the kids, I found Forrest in the toy box. It was a little unexpected, but definitely made me smile.
This picture was taken on a day when I was in my car running my kids back and forth
to different places all. day. long.
To be fair, I don't feel like my kids are "over scheduled."
I just have a lot of kids! And on that particular day several things lined up.
I caught a glimpse of what my future life has in store and have since
decided that we're moving to a farm and adopting an Amish type life style. ;)
Returning to soccer, Saturday mornings are tricky! Their schedules often conflict and Andrew is occasionally unable to come to games. Tomorrow, as an example, he will still be out of town on "business" (he is taking a customer on a fishing trip... poor guy!). Lottie and Henry both have games at 10:00. I'm grateful for friends and neighbors who help me out when I'm in a bind.
Something I've been thinking about lately is how it truly does "take a village" to raise a child. It's hard to reach out and ask for help. I've always said that these four children were our choice, so I can and should be able to manage it all. But really, there are days when I've really needed help! I try not to take advantage of the kindness of others and hope that I am returning favors in equal measure. Yes, we should be willing to serve and help our neighbors, family, etc. But I'm slowly realizing that we also experience circumstances when we will need to jump out of our comfort zones and ask for help! And that's okay. I believe the Lord was pretty serious when he asked us to serve our fellow man, in both the big and small ways.
Sheesh! Look who has a testimony of soccer favors? Ha! Ha!
Lottie played against one of her best friends on our first game this season.
They were SO FUN to watch!
I hope they end up as teammates next season
because chatting with Hadlee's Mom, Amy, is one of my favorite things!
So yes, soccer season is in full swing. I love it all (minus bad weather). Henry has scored his first goals ever this season (two so far!). His smile after those moments makes my heart explode. Lottie continues to prove that she is a complete rock star on the field. And Eliza's skills likewise continue to grow! The social component has been a real blessing in her life. Forrest wishes so much that he had a team of his own to claim. As a consolation prize, he seems fairly satisfied with the playgrounds that are his to explore as we hop around from one field to the next.
I'm trying to arrange more play dates for my kids. I'm trying to say "yes" more often. After friends come over, I am always super happy that I made the effort for my kids. Recently some friends came by for the morning. Since their visit, Forrest has been asking for another "play group" on a regular basis.
This one's a little random, but Henry came from school a few weeks ago COVERED in mud.
You can't tell from the picture, but it was on his face and in his hair too.
I didn't need to ask if he'd had a good day.
It was clear that recess had been a BLAST.
(He was playing soccer goalie!)
Well folks, I made it through another catch up post. And it feels good.
Just like Lottie after completing a tower of cups, I feel accomplished!